Its odd how one word once used to determine something so critical in history is now – at least in my world – a word that eliminates the very thing it stood for.
TRUTH
It’s a funny little word nowadays because its meaning has completely turned around and become almost contradictory to what it meant before. The Truth used to determine who was right and who was wrong. It was a way of separating the morally and intellectually lacking from those who excel. Now, it seems that the Truth is subjective. When there is a disagreement, rather than finding who was right and wrong, I opt for a use of the word that makes the most sense to me: Everybody has their own Truth. My step father always says “That’s your truth, what’s theirs?” It’s easy to live in the Truth of your world all of the time and completely ignore other peoples. Hmm… maybe an example would fit well here. You see, just because I don’t eat meat because of my moral compass, that does not make it a wrong choice for everyone. It just makes it different. My truth is that eating animals is not favorable to either your health… and obviously the animals. But yours may be that it gives you protein and that animals are meant to be eaten. Neither is right or wrong, they just are. I like to stay in the space of “it just is”.
I find that this mentality diffuses situations that would otherwise explode. When you are in disagreement with another, give it a try. Rather than defending your point by gathering ammo on the reasons why, think about where they’re at: They are a completely different person than you with a completely different life. Your values differ from theirs, and theirs from yours. Because you choose to live one way does not make their way wrong. (In fact, they probably think you’re wrong too). It is absolutely, one hundred thousand percent subjective.
So, the next time you’re being rubbed the wrong way… Put down the TNT. (That stuff is terribly dangerous and highly destructive when you’re handling it). And think.
How will you choose to react?
Taking off the Thinking Cap now and replacing with the much more sophisticated Dog Ears (to become one with the hounds at the park today),
A

